The Art of Change

Our New Reality?

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Right now, the hot topic everywhere we go is: COVID-19. The global pandemic that is caused by the novel coronavirus, has infected almost every nation to varying degrees of severity.  

Over the last few decades, there have been several health-related epidemics, such as HIV/AIDS, SARS, and the “Asian Flu”. However, for a health issue to elevate from an “epidemic” to a “pandemic”, is the difference from only a few countries being affected, to globally everyone being affected in some way (thanks Google!). The last true pandemic was the “Spanish Flu” that lasted roughly from 1918-1920, and there are very few people alive in the world today that also lived through that pandemic. So, it’s safe to say this time around, it’s a very new reality we’re living in. 

The advice given by the top doctor in Canada is to stay at home, and practice social distancing (or physical distancing as per the WHO). Thankfully, most of the population have been abiding by these guidelines, however there will always be those that don’t “believe it’s a big deal” or don’t want to “compromise their freedom”. 

I’ll admit, at first when most of the cases of COVID-19 were in China, I was skeptical about social distancing. It seemed to me that this was an overreaction for just a flu. I also thought it wouldn’t spread very far and only those who were elderly or with weak immune systems would have to worry. But as we all know now, that is not the case and anyone is at risk to become infected, it’s just the elderly and immuno-compromised people are at a GREATER RISK. Not only is COVID-19 highly infectious, but someone may have it and not even show any symptoms during the time period when they are the most infectious.

As silly as this may sound, I only felt that this was becoming a serious issue on the morning of March 12th, when the NBA announced that the remainder of the season would be postponed. Then the NHL and all the other major sports leagues around the world followed suit. It made me (and I’m sure many others) realize that this was a bigger issue than we first imagined. Then all the schools and daycares in Ontario announced that they will be closed for at least 3 weeks or more. I remember being at work and all the top managers were called into an emergency crisis team meeting. That particular day was my turning point, and I went from slightly skeptical to full-blown CONCERNED. 

With countries like Italy, Spain, China and India and states like New York and California imposing lockdowns, I wondered whether Canada would follow suit. And as of right now, we are not there yet, however It’s quite scary to think about. How long would a lockdown be needed? How would the lockdown affect our daily lives? What would it mean to our future generations, having to grow up in a locked-up state? 

This new reality is not something I could have predicted, but I think that one day, this too will pass and hopefully when that day comes, we can all practice kindness and compassion for one another and realize that we are all human, no one is above another. 

The Art of Change

“Quickly and swiftly dragging all my furniture out of it’s home”

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Has anyone ever had a “successful move”? If so please reach out to me because I have yet to hear about an instance where someone has spoken positively about their moving experience. I’ve only moved once as an adult, and I went from my parent’s home with just my clothes and a few dishes, to my first apartment that I needed to furnish. Hardly a “move”, seeing as I just had to pack my car with 4 or 5 bags of clothes and my body, and just begin living where I am now.

I have been hoping to move for the past year, and now that it is finally happening, I am overcome with anxiety. I’ve had 2 months’ notice, and even though that is plenty of time, some days I feel like there is too much to pack, clean, paint and fix and not enough time to get it done. Other days, I wish the move-in date could come sooner because I just want it all over with. Don’t get me wrong, I love my current place and I’m actually quite sad to move on, but once I got the confirmation that I’ve secured the new apartment, I just wanted to get this process all over with. Kind of like “ripping off a band aid”, but more so “quickly and swiftly dragging all my furniture out of it’s home”.

Now that I’ve begun packing, I’m slowly realizing I have more crap than I originally thought. I’ve donated and purged a lot of my possessions in the past year as I’ve led up to this point. I think the part that gives me the most anxiety is ensuring that my current apartment is left in a proper enough state for my deposit to not be compromised, and then cleaning and painting my new apartment to my standards. I kind of have high standards for cleanliness and a little bit of OCD for having things in a certain way, which definitely add to the pressure of getting this new place ready to go. All this, plus making sure my toddler can smoothly transition into her new room, makes me anxious. We leave for an over-seas vacation shortly after the move, and I worry that all the changes to her sleeping quarters will affect her –otherwise amazing- sleeping pattern.

Wish me luck y’all!